The Best Children’s Books about Feelings and Emotions

Reading children’s books about feelings is an effective way to help kids and teens learn to navigate their emotional world. Feelings books for toddlers, preschoolers, kindergarteners and older children can help kids begin to understand their emotions. Knowing how to describe, express, and manage emotions such as anger in healthy ways is important to a child’s social-emotional development and health.

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Benefits of Children’s Books About Feelings and Emotions

Feelings can be confusing when we don’t have the words to express them; they can also be overwhelming and scary when we keep them to ourselves.

Knowing how to describe our emotions is important to a child’s social-emotional health and development. So is knowing it’s okay to express and share our feelings with others in healthy ways.

Reading books about feelings to my daughter has helped her understand her emotions well enough to label them and communicate them with me. I believe that this has both reduced her temper tantrums and lessened their severity.

Books That Help Kids Understand Their Feelings

Look for these Children’s books about feelings at your local library. If you can’t find them, I have provided Amazon affiliate links for your convenience. If you click the title or image of the feelings book to purchase, I earn a small commission with no cost to you.

Reading children’s books about anger management and playing Social-Emotional Development Games for Kids are other simple ways to help kids learn how to navigate their emotional world.

Click HERE to see a list of games you can use to help your kids understand their feelings.

Another one of our favorite calming strategies is the use of calm down sensory bottles. Click HERE to learn more about them.

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Children’s Books about Feelings and Emotions for Toddlers to Teens

Books About Feelings for Toddlers

Making Faces: A First Book About Feelings

This feelings board book introduces five essential expressions: happy, sad, angry, surprised, and silly. Each is introduced with a large image of a baby’s face.

Readers are asked to mimic the face, then pick it out from a group of other babies. The very last spread includes all of the expressions from the previous pages, and a mirror so readers can watch themselves make any face they please.

In My Heart: A Book of Feelings

by Jo Witek (Author), Christine Roussey (Illustrator) (2-4 years) — This book explores a full range of emotions, describing how they feel physically, inside. With language that is lyrical but also direct, toddlers will be able to practice articulating and identifying their own emotions.

My Many Colored Days

by Dr. Seuss (2 – 5 years) — This is a color concept book to use with babies or feelings and moods book to discuss with toddlers.

At first, I didn’t like how certain colors and animals were associated with the different emotions. After I read it to my daughter a few times I learned to really appreciate this book and its simple message. “But it all turns out all right, you see. And I go back to being me.”

Preschool Books About Feelings and Emotions

Lots of Feelings

by Shelley Rotner (3 and up) — Children can learn to identify the feelings of others by reading this awesome little book. Simple text and photographs introduce basic emotions such as happy, grumpy, thoughtful, etc.

Today I Feel Silly: And Other Moods That Make My Day

by Jamie Lee Curtis (Author) & Laura Cornell (Illustrator) (3 and up) — My daughter and I love this book of fun rhymes about how a little girl feels from day-to-day. This book follows a spunky little red-head through 13 feelings beginning with “Today I feel silly…”

More Children’s Books about Feelings for Preschoolers

Glad Monster, Sad Monster – A Book about Feelings

by Ed Emberley & Anne Miranda (3 – 5 years) — This is a fun interactive book that kids can use to understand the way they feel. Your child can try on funny masks as they walk through the wide range of moods all little monsters (kids) experience.

Inside Out Box of Mixed Emotions

by Disney Book Group (ages 3 and up) — Get to know Riley’s infamous emotions with this unique format. With five fun storybooks, each devoted to a different Emotion, fans of Pixar’s Inside Out, will treasure this special collection of Joy, Sadness, Fear, Anger, and Disgust.

What Are You Feeling? Feelings Books for Children

by Baby Professor – Teach your kids about feelings and emotions so they can express themselves well. Children feel many emotions on a daily basis, the ability to name them leads to understanding them.

Books About Feelings for Kindergarten

Feelings to Share from A to Z

by Todd Snow (Author), Peggy Snow (Author), Pamela Espeland (Editor), Carrie Hartman (Illustrator) (3 – 5 years) — This book helps children build and use a vocabulary for communicating their emotions.

Some of the rhymes and word choices in this book were awkward and didn’t flow very well. I list it here because it contains more feeling words than most books.  We found it useful even with the awkwardness. 

 

The 5 Senses Workbook for Kindergarten – Feelings Books for Children

by Baby Professor (Ages 3 and up) – Learning about the senses is an easy way for kids to learn about the body and what feelings mean. Children can begin to understand their emotions and feelings and learn to respond appropriately as a result of reading this book.

Children’s Books about Feelings and Emotions

A Little Book About Feelings

by Abbie Schiller and Sam Kurtzman-Counter (Ages 3 – 6 years) — Reading this story helps children learn the universal and transitory nature of all emotions. It looks at feelings of all sizes and shapes and helps young children both understand their feelings and know that it is okay to express them.  

The Color Monster

by Anna Llenas  (ages 3 – 7 years) — Bright illustrations and amazing 3-D pop-ups illustrate common emotions such as happiness, sadness, anger, fear, and calm. It is both a delightful book to read and a great tool for helping young kids sort out their emotions.

More Books to Help Kids Understand Their Feelings

The Way I Feel

by Janan Cain (3 – 8 yrs) — The day my daughter said, “I’m feeling shy” at only 2 years of age I knew that she was learning how to identify her feelings thanks to reading this book.

I like the note to parents in the back showing how this book can be used to help children understand what circumstances make them feel happy, sad, jealous, and so on.

The Feelings Book

by Todd Parr (3 and up) — The illustrations in this book are fun, but this book does not teach about emotions as effectively as some of the others in this list. There are a few emotions included (scared, brave, cranky, lonely, and silly), but most of the “feelings” are more about wanting to do certain activities.

More Children’s Books About Feelings and Emotions

Hilly Discovers Her Feelings

by Meytal Raz-Nave (3 and up) — Throughout this book, Hilly’s quest is motivated by one simple question, “How do I feel?” in response to different events that she encounters in daily life. While reading this book, children can learn about their own feelings and emotions through Hilly’s varied experiences. 

 

The Very Frustrated Monster

by Andi Green (3 and up) — The WorryWooMonsters stories teach simple lessons about many different feelings and emotions and how to handle them. This is one of several in the series. Links to others by the same author can be found on the same page.

Children’s Books About Feelings for Older Children, Tweens, and Teens

The Feelings Book: The Care and Keeping of Your Emotions

by Dr. Lynda Madison (8 and up) — The Feelings Book will help young children understand their emotions, and deal with them in positive ways.

Inside you’ll find tips on how to express feelings and stay in control, plus get sensitive advice on handling fear, anxiety, jealousy, and grief.

Understanding Myself: A Kid’s Guide to Intense Emotions and Strong Feelings

by Mary C., Ph.D. Lamia (9 and up) — This book offers a basic education for families in understanding, managing and discussing strong emotions and feelings.

The straightforward information also makes it useful for older teens and parents struggling to understand their children’s feelings.

 

 

The Survival Guide for Kids with Behavior Challenges: How to Make Good Choices and Stay Out of Trouble

by Thomas McIntyre Ph.D. (9 and up) — Many kids and teens have challenges when it comes to behavior. In this revised edition of his time-tested book, you will find practical strategies and sound advice to help kids learn to make smarter choices. 

Using calm down sensory bottles and playing Social-Emotional Development Games for Kids is another simple way to help kids learn how to navigate their emotional world. Click on the links to learn more.

I have also compiled a list of books to help kids understand and manage their anger. For more information check out this awesome collection of Children’s Books about Anger Management.

Books to Help Kids Understand Their Feelings: Resources for Parents and Caregivers

These social-emotional development resources for kids will help parents and caregivers understand how to help their children deal with, understand, and express their emotions in healthy ways.

The skills I have developed as a result of reading these books have helped me navigate the treacherous waters of helping my spirited daughter understand her emotional world.

Feelings Flash Cards

Todd Parr’s flashcards do a great job of helping kids understand their feelings. These 20 sturdy flashcards with 40 different emotions make understanding feelings fun!

Each card shows two opposite feelings, one on each side, rendered in words and lively pictures. Kids will learn what it means to feel silly and serious, calm and nervous, brave and scared, etc.

The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind

by Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson — This is one of my absolute favorite parenting books. In it the authors explain the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures. A must read!

For more of my favorite parenting books check out 15 Books Every Parent Should Read. 

The Whole-Brain Child Workbook

by Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson —  This workbook allows readers not only to think more deeply about how the ideas fit their own parenting approach but also develop specific and practical ways to implement the concepts. Dozens of clear, practical and age-specific exercises and activities to assist in brain development are provided.

Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child The Heart of Parenting

by Ph.D. John Gottman & Joan Declaire (Authors), Daniel Goleman (Foreword) — This is a great guide for caregivers to teach children to understand and regulate their emotional world.  Emotionally intelligent children enjoy increased self-confidence, greater physical health, better performance in school, and healthier social relationships.

How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk

by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish — A bestselling classic by experts on communication between parents and children. Includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author’s time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships. I can’t recommend this book highly enough! 

Learning how to express emotions is important to a child’s social-emotional health and development. Reading children’s books about feelings is an effective way to help kids and teens learn to manage their emotions.

This collection of feelings books for toddlers, preschoolers, kindergarteners and older children can help kids learn to navigate their emotional world.

Reading children’s books about feelings to my daughter has helped her understand her feelings and emotions well enough to label them and communicate them with me. I believe that this has both reduced her temper tantrums and lessened their severity.

I can’t recommend these children’s books about feelings highly enough!

Don’t forget to check out Books that Help Kids Manage Anger and Social-Emotional Development Games for Kids.

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