Hi Elle, This is a great question, thanks for asking. I don’t recommend helping, spotting, or assisting children in any way other than verbally if they ask–or if the child, or you, feels unsafe. As you said, it is best for children to learn how to climb a tree on their own. So, when a child wants physical help, which they often do when they see other children in the tree, my standard reply is, “If you can’t get up there on your own (without help) you’re not ready to climb that tree yet. Is there another tree you can try?” I hope that answers your question! If not, please use the contact form in the footer below.

Good luck,

Nell

Thanks.

Thanks, Vivianne!

I’m so glad that you enjoyed it, and reaped the benefits of countless hours of outdoor activities. I, too, have benefited from a childhood spent outside. Climbing trees was always one of my favorites.

I’m sorry to hear about your son’s acrophobia. As far as advice goes, I would never try to convince a child to climb a tree. Tree climbing needs to be a self-motivated activity. Fearful children are unsafe children.

I would, however, encourage you to help him find the courage to face his fear of heights by gradually increasing his exposure, and using calming activities or relaxation techniques. If his fear of heights is extreme, and his anxiety is debilitating, I would recommend professional help.

Nell

Haha! Love it Linda! I love my rough and tumble tree climbing tutu wearing little girl. The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree in this family 🙂

I know the feeling Carla. I love watching my daughter climb and gain confidence, but sometimes I get a little nervous myself – we are mothers after all. I like to praise my little one for climbing so well, then ask her to show me that she knows to climb down, before climbing higher. Maybe it will work for you as well. 🙂